Online Antenatal HypnoBirthing® Group Course for Expats in Spain

The antenatal course for an amazing birth experience on your terms — wherever in Spain you are.

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Do you recognise this?

  • You lie awake at night, and the word that keeps circling is "tearing.It doesn't help that the expat Facebook groups are full of it. Someone describes their stitches, another types "episiotomy," a third shares a story that makes your stomach drop — and there's no one nearby to put it in perspective. No mum, no sister, no midwife friend down the road to say "it wasn't like that for me." Just you, at midnight, clenching as you read, half wanting to know everything and half wanting to slam the laptop shut and pretend you never asked.

  • You're doing this far from home, and some days the loneliness hits hard. Your mum is a half day travel away. Your best friend can't pop round with biscuits and a hug. The people who'd normally carry you through something this big are all in another country. And when you picture actually going into labour, there's a quiet panic underneath it all: "Who is really going to be there for me? Who's in my corner when it matters most?"
  • The Spanish maternity system feels like a maze — and one that keeps steering you toward things you didn't ask for.Back home you'd have known roughly what to expect. Here, you're not sure what a matrona does versus an obstetra, whether you'll even meet the person who delivers your baby, or what a "plan de parto" is worth if no one reads it. And on top of the confusion, every appointment seems to add another intervention "just in case" — talk of inductions, monitors, drips, of being "allowed" to do things. You came in wanting a calm, gentle birth, and you walk out feeling like you've signed up for a medical procedure you don't fully understand.

  • You smile and nod in appointments — and then panic in the car park. Your Spanish is "ordering-a-coffee" good, not "discussing-foetal-monitoring-during-a-contraction" good. And the thought terrifies you: that in the most important moment of your life, you won't understand what's being said, or won't be able to say what you need. Being voiceless in that room — unable to ask, to refuse, to be understood — is the fear that keeps creeping back.

  • You know you want a natural, calm birth — you just have no idea how to actually make that happen here in Spain. You've read the books. You believe your body can do this. But "trust your body" feels like a lovely slogan that nobody has translated into real steps for giving birth in a Spanish hospital. How do you stay calm when the system runs a certain way? How do you hold your ground, in another language, in an unfamiliar system? You want a plan, not a mantra.

How would it be for you if...

…the word "tearing" no longer made you flinch?
Imagine understanding how your body opens for your baby — and having the breathing and positions to work with it. You scroll past the scary posts and think, calmly, "That's not the only way it can go."

…you didn't feel alone for a single moment of this? Picture a small group of women who get it, in your pocket the whole way — and a partner that is prepared to be your calm, capable advocate. Held and supported, even miles from home.

…the Spanish maternity system finally made sense — and worked for you, not on you? Imagine walking into every appointment knowing who's who, what your rights are, and which interventions are routine versus truly necessary — steady, informed, and back in the driving seat.

…the language barrier simply stopped being a barrier? Picture the key Spanish birth words at your fingertips, a birth plan that speaks for you when you'd rather breathe than talk, and a partner ready to step in. Calm and in control, even when the Spanish is flying around you.

…you had an actual, step-by-step way to birth naturally — in SpainNot a slogan — a toolkit. Your breath, your mind and your environment working together to keep you calm and in control, and a plan that fits the Spanish system. "Trust your body," finally backed up by real steps.

This is all possible when you book the HypnoBirthing group course.

This is your way to an amazing birth experience on your terms!


Preview of the Online Antenatal HypnoBirthing Group Course for Expats in Spain

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This is what is included in the HypnoBirthing Group Course:

  • 5 live online sessions of 2.5 hours, once a week over 5 weeks, via GoTo Meeting — where I walk you through everything from the breathing techniques to how the Spanish maternity system actually works, all from the comfort of your own home, wherever you are in Spain.
  • The full HypnoBirthing Institute workbook — relaxation scripts, hands-on exercises, affirmations for both mother and father, natural pain-relief information, a birth partner guide, breathing techniques and more.
  • Downloadable relaxation audios, to practise your breathing and visualisations any time, day or night.
  • A goody bag of supportive products, posted to your door before the course begins — your tools ready and waiting.
  • The complete Birth Plan Pack — bilingual birth preference templates, the full numbered options list in Spanish and English, and a formal bilingual letter for your care provider. We go over it together in the course, and I answer your specific questions live, so you're clear on every choice.
  • The BRAINS decision-making tool — with the key questions translated into Spanish — so you can actually use it in the room, in the moment, with your Spanish care team.
  • My expat information handout — clear, myth-busting guides to the things that trip parents up in Spain: birth hormones and the oxytocin loop, your due date, waters breaking before labour, "big baby" warnings, vaginal exams, and understanding induction.
  • WhatsApp and email support from me — throughout the course and right up to 2 weeks after your baby arrives, so you're never left with a scary question and no one to ask.
  • Deliberately kept small — never more than 4 couples, so there's real time for your questions, your worries and your story. A proper live class, not a video you watch alone.
  • No travel. No parking. No "where's the venue?" stress. Just you, your partner, and a cup of tea on the sofa — preparing for birth in the very place you'll feel most relaxed.

After this 5 week program you will:

>> Understand your body so well that the fear of tearing loses its grip — with the breathing and positioning tools to support a gentle, gradual birth, and the perspective to let the scary stories go.

>> Feel genuinely supported, never alone — with a prepared partner who knows how to advocate for you, and a group of women who have your back.

>> Know the Spanish maternity system inside out — and how to stay in charge of it — confident about who does what, what to expect, which interventions are routine versus necessary, and how to keep your birth on your terms.

>> Have the language tools and birth plan you need to be understood and respected, even when your Spanish runs out.

>> Hold a clear, practical plan for a natural, calm birth that actually works in Spain — your trust in your body finally matched by real, usable steps.

Investment 

€347,- per couple.

For five live, intimate sessions (never more than 4 couples), the full HypnoBirthing Institute workbook, downloadable relaxation audios, a goody bag posted to your door, the complete Birth Plan Pack, the BRAINS tool with the key questions translated into Spanish, my expat information handout, and WhatsApp + email support right up to 2 weeks after birth.

Put it next to the things you'll happily spend on for your baby — the pram, the cot, the tiny outfits they'll outgrow in weeks. This is an investment in how your baby comes into the world, and in how you remember that day for the rest of your life. That memory stays with you forever.

Why opt for the HypnoBirthing Group Course?

A small, personal group. Never more than 4 couples, so there's room for your questions, your worries and your story. You're a person here, not a number.

You won't be doing this alone. Over five weeks you'll sit alongside other expat parents facing the very things keeping you up at night. Hearing someone else voice your exact worry is powerful — you realise you're not "the only one," and you learn from each other every week.

Support that doesn't stop at the last session. You can reach me by WhatsApp and email throughout the course and right up to 2 weeks after birth — because so many of the real questions come after the sessions, when you're back in that appointment room or holding your newborn at 3am.

Truly interactive — even online. This is a live class. We practise the techniques together, talk things through in real time, and I answer your questions as they come up. Nothing like watching a pre-recorded video alone. And because you're at home, you practise your relaxation in the very environment where you'll be calming yourself throughout pregnancy.

Born-in-Spain knowledge, from someone who's lived it. This isn't generic hypnobirthing — it's birth preparation built specifically for expat parents navigating the Spanish system.

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Who is the course for?

The course is for mothers-to-be and fathers-to-be or birth partners.

This course is not just for the mothers to prepare for birth, but also for fathers or birth partners so that they too feel confident and prepared.

Whether you're a first-time parent or have experienced childbirth before, HypnoBirthing can benefit anyone who desires to learn natural pain management techniques, reduce anxiety surrounding childbirth, and foster a deeper connection with their birthing partner. HypnoBirthing equips you with valuable tools and techniques to navigate the birthing process with ease and empowerment.

Can I bring my doula?

The course is for 2 people, if you bring your partner you cannot bring your doula. If your doula is interested in HypnoBirthing and wants to know how to best support you with HypnoBirthing she can contact me. 

Does my partner have to attend all classes?

No, HypnoBirthing teaches you self-hypnosis so you can achieve a state of deep relaxation, which will enable you to birth your baby more comfortably. However, the presence of your partner significantly enhances the birthing experience. Partners learn valuable techniques to support you during labour, strengthen their bond with you, and feel empowered to play an active role in the birth. Additionally, you'll learn about the entire birthing process, what is happening in your body, and how to make informed decisions, communicate with your healthcare provider, and understand the norms of birth.

If your partner misses out on this information, it will be up to you to transfer and explain why certain choices are important to you. However, if you both attend, you'll have the same information from the start, making it easier to make decisions together.

If your partner can't attend all classes, we can arrange an additional session tailored to his preparation needs at an extra cost. Please email us for more information.

I am planning a hospital birth, is HypnoBirthing for me?

HypnoBirthing is a very complete prenatal course that will benefit all parents. It doesn´t matter if you are planning a hospital birth, a home birth, a water birth, a land birth, a birth with or without medical intervention or even a caesarean birth. HypnoBirthing will benefit all. The course provides evidence-based birth information that will assist you to make a healthy informed decision that best fits your family.

 

The hospital is offering a free birth course, why not use that one?

  • You´ll learn a range of tools and options for natural pain relief that is (in most cases) not offered or learned in the course of the healthcare provider or hospital

  • Independent childbirth education is not based on policies of the healthcare provider or hospital

  • You will know all your options for childbirth, not limited to what your healthcare provider or hospital offers

  • In the HypnoBirthing course you will watch birthing videos that inspire, rather than frighten

  • You know who your teacher is

  • In the HypnoBirthing course the birth partners have more involvement

  • You´ll be informed for creating your birth preferences

I am planning on taking an epidural, can I still benefit from the hypnobirthing course?

While HypnoBirthing classes are primarily focused on natural childbirth techniques and pain management without medication, there are still many reasons to consider taking the classes, even if you're planning on using medication during labour.

The classes can help reduce anxiety and provide valuable information and techniques that can be beneficial regardless of your birth plan. While the course emphasizes coping with pain without medication, you can still gain valuable insights into relaxation, breathing techniques, and how to create a positive birthing environment.

Ultimately, the decision to take HypnoBirthing classes depends on your individual preferences and goals for childbirth.

The hospital/care provider is offering a free birth course, why not use that one?

  • Independent childbirth education is not based on policies of the CP or hospital

  • You´ll learn a range of tools and options for natural pain relief that is (in most cases) not offered or learned in the course of the CP or hospital

  • You will know all your options for childbirth, not limited to what your CP or hospital offers

  • In the HypnoBirthing course you will watch birthing videos that inspire, rather than frighten

  • You know who your teacher is

  • In the HypnoBirthing course the birth partners have more involvement

  • You´ll be informed for creating your birth preferences

When should I start the course?

I recommend starting the course between 18 and 30 weeks of pregnancy. This gives you time to practice and get into the positive and trusting mindset you will have so much benefit from during birthing.

However, it is never too early nor too late to get starting and prepare yourself for an awesome birth. If you are closer to your birthing time and need to cover it more quickly than 5 weeks, I can make special arrangements for you. Just send me an email and we will check out the possibilities together.

 

Is birth with HypnoBirthing painless?

It can be, although HypnoBirthing does not promise painless birth. You will still feel your body working for you. You will be given techniques to facilitate your bodies’ natural process, which can result in a painless birth. Some women (like me) experience partial or even painless birth, others experience some inconveniences that are generally tolerable.

However there is no guarantee that you will experience painless birth. It requires your commitment to practising the exercises taught in class and your ability to master the hypnosis techniques (which is doable for everyone with some practise).

Also bear in mind that how you evaluate your birth depends on many factors and not just on the feeling of pain. A birth experience can also be positive and empowering with (some amount of) pain.

What will HypnoBirthing bring me?

Typically, HypnoBirthing families approach their births fully prepared and feel satisfied with their birth experiences, although not every HypnoBirthing mother experiences a pain-free birth or the birth they planned for. However, the birth satisfaction rate among HypnoBirthing mothers is higher than among non-HypnoBirthing mothers.

HypnoBirthing reduces anxiety and fears related to pregnancy and childbirth. HypnoBirthing moms say that the course prepared them for a birth in which they were able to make their own informed choices, even when it didn’t go as expected. They felt strong and in control, which allows them to reflect on birth in a positive way.

In addition, HypnoBirthing mothers tend to have shorter, more comfortable, and easier labours with less need for intervention or pain relief. This contributes to the feeling of empowerment and admiration for their own strength and capabilities.

Why is it called HypnoBirthing?

HypnoBirthing is a philosophy of natural childbirth education enhanced by hypnosis techniques. Though the name might suggest so, this well-thought-out program of childbirth education is not limited to a hypnosis technique, but consists of six components; deep relaxation, self-hypnosis, breathing techniques, visualisations, affirmations and physiological knowledge and natural childbirth education.

It is about training your mind and body to relax and work together in harmony facilitating natural birth process. This will contribute to a healthier, drug-free and stress-free birth experience for the mother, baby and father.

I am skeptical about the hypnosis component of the course. Will it still work?

Yes, about 90% of people can be hypnotized. Some can go deeper than others. The idea that you cannot go into hypnosis is often based on the idea that the hypnotist is taking control. That is not so.

In general can be said that the stronger your will is and the more intelligent you are, the easier it is to enter hypnosis. It is your willingness to accept suggestions that makes hypnosis possible. If you reject suggestions, they will not work, because you are in control of your inner world.

Therefor you will also not be doing or saying anything you don´t want.  If something goes against your principles, do not accept it. If something comes to mind that you don't want to share, you don't have to share it and you will be able to not do so.

Hypnosis simply is a deep state of relaxation where you will be putting helping messages and images into your mind and getting rid of beliefs, messages, images and myths that don´t help.

What language is the course in?

The course will be in English or Dutch.

Books and class handouts are available in English, Spanish and Dutch

I do speak Spanish, but I don't feel comfortable yet to give my classes in Spanish. So for chitchat you can reach out to me in Spanish, but actual useful information I only provide in English or Dutch.

Where will the in person course be?

The group course will be held in Malaga city.

The exact location depends on the availability of the venue I rent. Upon confirming your registration for the course, I will provide you with the exact address of the location.

 

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